4. Designers Are Stereotyped
“I simply can’t work this way, dahhhling!” Earned or not, being a designer comes with a stereotype. We have acquired a rep in some circles as picky, pushy, precious assholes (like Edna Mode from the Incredibles, only less cuddly).
Until the team gets to know you, you may have to carry someone else’s emotional baggage for a while. Just remember, they don’t know you yet, and in the end they want to work well with you.
First, don’t be THAT designer. Ever. If you’re not, then just be confident, reasonable and approachable. Present your perspective clearly, and use research and process to back it up. But don’t be afraid to admit you are wrong or compromise. (Except on one thing… No capes!)